You’re My Everything

You know how there is a book which you keep reading again and again but you never get bored of it, ever? You want to take it everywhere you go, not to read, but just to have the comfort of having your favorite book with you.

You are that book to me.

You know how when a dish is so very tasty and you just can't stop eating it and you don't want to share it or waste it?! You want it all just for yourself so you just save it to relish it later.

You are that dish to me.

You know how sometimes you sleep for 5 minutes and wake up fully refreshed and with a plan ready to take on the world.

You are that 5 minutes of sleep to me.

You know that fantastico movie which makes you laugh endlessly, but then also make your feel so good inside when one of those romantic moments pops up on the screen and it takes you to a different world altogether where you feel all your dreams will come true and it becomes your all time favorite and you just can’t stop talking about with everyone that you meet or see.

You are that fantastico movie to me.

You know those pair of jeans which fit perfectly and match all your shirts. You take it everywhere because it looks good for any occasion and you just love it so much and would hate to lose it.

You are that pair of jeans to me.

You know those stylish pens which you buy on a whim and then you fall in love with it the first time you use it because it glides on the paper so good and the ink is this beautiful black and you want to use it but don't want to dry it up and you want to treasure it for the rest of your life because you are sure you won't get another pen like this one ever again.

You are that pen to me.

You know one of those songs that make you feel good every time you hear it and you just can’t stop listening to it and a thought pops up in your head that this is what music is supposed to be and what it should be like.

You are that song to me.

You know one of those beautiful days that you just wake up and feel peppy, happy and all set to win the world and you feel no one can ever stop you no matter what happens throughout that day.

You are that beautiful day to me.

Add up all these little moments of happiness derived from all these little things and the happiness I feel is unlike anything I’ve ever felt before. And only you are the reason for that. 

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

The impact of negative thoughts

What do we do when we are feeling very low? We try to find inspiration and motivation from people who have achieved greatness in life. We look up to those who have succeeded in-spite of difficult circumstances around them. We look at the ones who’ve created an impact on several lives.

We see these people and then try to reassure ourselves that everything is going to be alright by updating our status to positive sayings from famous people and writing blog posts about how everything is going to be okay.

I am 28 years old. By now I have had a lot of breakdowns. Every time this happens I want to give up everything and run away. I want to go to a place where I can just read novels and eat pizza and ice cream all day, every day. During these breakdowns, I used to wallow in self-pity and self-sympathy and cry myself to sleep for a few days. And just like that one morning, I used to wake up and snap out of this whole self-pity thing. I used to take charge of the situation, read a little motivating & inspirational stuff and come out of this blackness into the bright light and again everything used to be colorful and fun and nice until the next breakdown. That was how it was, every time.

With experience and wisdom, I started questioning all these motivational and inspirational sayings. One time I found a saying which said "Do what makes you happy" and I started thinking maybe I am in the wrong profession; maybe this is not what I want to be and I should do something which makes me happy.

I would dream about a job where just reading novels all day would get me paid. I would totally rock at that job. While in this search for what makes me happy, I stumbled upon another quote "I don't think you should just do what makes you happy. Do what makes you great. Do what's hard and uncomfortable and scary and hard but pays off in the long run." After reading this, I thought, I shouldn’t just do what makes me happy. I should do something bold and brave even though I wouldn’t like it sometimes.

Thoughts like these make you question everything you have ever believed in. You suddenly remember that saying which you really took to heart about how "If it is supposed to happen, it will happen" and think what if it was supposed to happen but I didn't make it happen; what if I had tried harder and made it happen. And with this thought comes a flood of regrets, a night of crying and a blizzard of what-ifs. Navigating through this minefield of negative thoughts drowns your energy. It messes you up. You break down again.

So, I made my own quote, which I say to myself all the time "Papple"*in little minion voice with a big toothy smile* and in addition to that, I keep telling to myself "It will be alright. You will pull through. I trust you."

In the end, it’s not about finding the right motivator to follow. It is about being your own motivator. You have to write down about all your breakdowns to learn how you got back up from them.  You have to never quit on life. You have to tell yourself that how you will never quit. How you will never give power to negative thoughts and let them impact your decisions. Because the truth is, you are the only one who knows you best. And that means when you breakdown, you have to be strong enough to pick yourself back up and live life that’ll make you happy. 

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

Peppy Paneer Pizza

So here's the story of how the peppy paneer pizza from 'a pizza place' became her all-time favorite pizza.

Her first date was in 'a pizza place' where they ordered a medium "Veg Extravaganza" pizza. They did not talk much except tell in between bites that they have had better pizzas before and how they should never come to 'this pizza place' because the pizza was not that great. The way they were behaving looked like a crappy movie scene staged with really bad actors. They tried to string words together but the sentences....they all just failed to make sense altogether.

Their next date was also at the 'same pizza place'. It was raining heavily and they were soaked to their skin and 'that pizza place' was the only decent eatery open and the smell of hot pizza, whenever the door opened, was overwhelming and anything hot seemed immensely appetizing at that point. So, '5 peppers' sounded spicy enough to jog their whole body into some sort of action and semblance, so that was what was ordered. Another round of have-had-better-pizza talk followed.

The third date was a crappy Bollywood movie, but they kissed, so it was special in some way.

After that, everyone lost count.

But it was on a Saturday - an amazing magical Saturday - and it was summer when they were at 'that same pizza place' again.

There was only one table available and it was right below the AC. There they were sitting oblivious to the fact that they were going to love the pizza they had just ordered; that they will be spending countless moments sitting there and the AC will be the only witness when they slowly fall in love with each other.

This was the first time they had ordered Peppy Paneer pizza, a small one with just four slices. But one bite into the first slice and they knew that they were going to be coming back here again. 

After finishing it, he suggested they order another one, a large one this time. With belly already half full, she asked "Are you crazy? You know how large the pizza will be? We will not be able to finish it" To which he said "I can. You wanna bet ?" Then lo and behold, he went on to devour 6 of the 8 slices. She herself managed to eat 2 slices and gave up on the way to her third and just sat there watching him eat and eat. When he took the first bite from the 6th slice she had bitten into was when she blurted out something she was supposed to just say to herself "You are crazy. I love you." She then went onto blush a color of red that was deeper than the color of the red pepper on the pizza. She couldn't believe that she had just said it out loud. Not missing a beat, he replied without hesitation "I love you too" and went on to finish the last slice of the pizza with a huge smile.

He finally said, "We should come here more often. I liked 'this pizza and this place' but most of all I like being here only when I'm with you."

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

High impact people

Yes, "people". Do you know how sometimes a car comes in contact with another car and due to this impact there is a dent or a scratch and the car is never the same again? Similarly, imagine yourself coming in contact with a high impact person. You won't have any physical dent or a scratch but once you come in contact with these kind of people you know you will never be the same again. The difference between you and the car is that a car can be fixed while the impact caused by these people cannot.

Let me tell you about one such high impact person. Let's call this person Z (I always liked the letter Z. Do you pronounce it as “zee” as Americans do or “zed” as the rest of the world does. All this confusion around one letter.) This 'Z' is always in a cheerful mood. Happy, peppy, positive, cheerful and loud.

OMG! So loud. 

Just being around this person sometimes makes you happy, and sometimes makes you want to punch them in their face. This Z person even has a blog, where they write about all the happy things happening in their life. Their Instagram and Facebook are filled with photos of their fun-filled adventures, their treks, campfires, friends and selfies; lots and lots of selfies. All this happiness of theirs clouds up your mind and you keep thinking, 'Why can't I be this happy, cheerful, positive and brimming-with-energy person?' You start thinking and then you start crying and wishing you were them, not like them mind you, but just where you were in their place. And one fine day, they just stop or you do or everything does and in that one moment you look into their old photos on Instagram and Facebook and you see the barely hidden pain.

You read their old blog posts and this time, you read between the lines. You read the post where they told everyone how much in love they are with this one person but as you read through there's never a mention of this lover again in any of the other posts till date. You recall old conversations with them and hear the call for help you never understood at the time. Above all, you see how much they are falling apart just like you and are trying to hold everything together and be happy. They try to be as positive, happy and cheerful as they can be and while making this attempt, they end up making a lot of other people happy.

For everyone's sake, for once in their life, I hope they meet a person like Z and have this moment of realization that you don't need a lot to be happy because all you need to be happy is to just be.

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

The best way to listen to music

The headline makes it pretty clear about what this blog post is all about. Yes, I’m about to drop some knowledge on the best ways to listen to music and the answers will surprise you.

Nobody can deny listening to music. Whether you like old time Rafi songs, or the latest Honey Singh Raps, everyone has their own taste in music and everyone has their own way of listening to them. Whether you use earphones so that you can be the only one to enjoy the bliss music brings with it or you are blasting songs through your 5000W speakers till the neighbors call the cops, the way we listen to music sometimes defines the way we are. So without further ado, lets jump right into the answers to the world’s most important question ‘What’s the best way to listen to music?’

Earphones/Headphones

Earphones come at the top of the list for a reason. They create a perfect cocoon of bliss and entertainment around you. When you’re listening to music with your earphones on, there’s no past or future, you just belong to the moment. Even if your mom is yelling, or your boss is calling you to do some important work, earphones make the painful world of reality go away. You can sleep, run, cook, write and do a hundred different things when music is on and there’s no one to disturb you. Those comfy earmuffs on your head become your best friend. But don’t tell that to your girlfriend, because then she’ll think you’re just weird. Believe me! I say that from experience!

Home Theater System

Home Theater System is like having a super power in your hands. You can make the utensils in your kitchen fall down. You’ll realize the exact level of volume your mother’s screams can go up to. You can unite the entire neighborhood with a single objective of how to make you stop.

The way those speakers can make yours and your grandpa’s heart thunder at more than 100 beats per minute will redefine the meaning of being alive.  Listening to music on a home theater system is the way god intended music to be listened. You take that from me. I say that from experience.

Inside A Car

The best way of bringing people together and starting a surprise Antakshari is when you switch on a song in the car. No matter whether you’re driving a rental or your own, music can bring people together in a car within seconds. Playing music in a car is like creating your own world full of happiness, delight and absolute awesomeness. People on the road, especially the cop standing at the signal might hate you for it, but the joy of listening to music on high volume in a car is just too tempting to resist. Personally, playing music inside a car is my favorite way of listening to music. And as always, I say that from experience.

So how about you guys? Do you feel the same or different? Share your comments down below and let me know how you like to listen to your favorite music.

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.