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Well I am back, missed me??, I know it has just been 4 days, but I missed you guys so very much really, I am so glad I am back here.


Yesterday introductions took place in college and i had so much fun, i just cant tell you enough, the seniors are the coolest i have met, 2 of the seniors are RJ's and one named chaitra talks and talk and then talks some more my god, It was great.....

Well guess what I learned something new (again :P), I think I gotta change this blog name to The learner or something....anyways, so here is the thing I learned,

I went back to see all the posts I have written and saw that I have been ranting only about me,and me only, Oh how selfish am I???, Tch Tch Tch, so to make my mistake good (Again :P), this post is totally dedicated to you guys, See how good hearted person I am (Please say yes please........)

Well so here is the thing how its gonna work, there are 2 questions which are very close to my heart, you have to anwer those with truth and truth only, sort of like Sach ka saamna, that show harms more than it heels, but this will heal more than you expect.........

So here is a 1st question.......

This was asked by my very good friend Abhishek aka x-system, his question has been like the turning point of my life, it may seem simple to answer, but I want you to not take it simply as a mere question, but seriously ask yourself, or rather your heart and answer, and also you should give a reason as to why you are giving that answer, Be honest (at least this time yaar :P), here it is......

Who would you take a bullet for?


Seems simple right. Wrong, just read the question again and think with all your heart as to who is that person who is so close to you, for whom you would literally give your life, no name may come or a hundred may pop up, the person may be your friend or a relative, I just want to why, you can only say 3 person's name and not more, and please don't say “My parents come first” because we all know parents are the most important persons in our life, so besides your parents just temme who are the 3 most important person's in your life for whom you would literally take a Bullet for?


Well if you ask me the 3 person for whom I would take a bullet for are Jasmine, Vinod, Chavan.

Jasmine: She is my friend who I met online, lives in assam, and we are the bestest friends ever, The reason I choose jasmine is because she was the one, who gave a feel to my care, I cared for everyone before (i.e my family and friends), but I dint feel the care I had, it was more like I was forced to care or something, but when I, talked to jasmine, she made me realize there is more to life than pretend, I understood that you live our life because you love it, and when you really feel the care towards your loved ones, it is the best feeling ever, the realization made me realize what others pain and happiness is all about and because of this, I owe everything to her, my feelings, my care, My life.

Vinod: He is my other friend, who I met in my school, they story of how we became friends is also, quite nice, I and vinod were in my 8th standard, we actually dint talk to each other much even though we were classmates from nursery, one day when I asked him his home work of G.K, he said he wouldn't give me and said you should work it our yourself, I seized his book instead, he got angry and punched me in the face and we began a fight, after the fight (And I was badly bruised :P), I asked sorry and he too did the same we and resolved our differences and became frenz.
8 years down the line, we are so close to each other, that we don't hide anything from each other, may it be our secrets or each other torn chaddi's :P, we are best buddies, he is the one who has been always there for me, and I guess if I land up I any trouble, he will be the first one rescue me, So I choose him

Chavan: I met chavan in my 10+2, I was studying science, I was BIG gaming freak at that time, and he was the same too, so we got to know each other very well, during my second year I flunked, I later took up commerce and passed my 10+2, and he passed in science itself and went to college, there had been a gap of one year, his studies to mine, but this dint deter our friendship.
when I first met him in my degree college almost after a year, we were like, we had never been away itself, we gelled so well that friendship with him took a whole new meaning. The understanding between us took to a whole new level and we became the best buds ever, he has been with me all the time, even though I am here in Mysore studying journalism and he is in Bangalore working as a software engineer in Microsoft, it has not changed a thing for us, He has always been there for me, by giving me support when I was lonely, or by giving me some quality advice about girls ;). he is the one who I can whole heartedly trust on at any moment in my life.... So chavan.

My second question is:

What is the most Inspiring thing ever happened to you?


This a Lil complicated one because there may many things that may have happened to you, which took your life towards being a lil better and making a lil more sense to you, so sort it out among those and write in the best one in ok......


If you ask me one thing that has inspired the most in my life is Reading Blogs. (Don't Smile there ;)), I know it may seem like a simple answer, but honestly, blogs have been like my stepping stones towards success, before, I was like an extreme introvert (if there ever was one), I dint mingle much, i dint talk much, I dint express much, I was like a apricot, hard on outside soft on inside, but after I read blogs written by you guys, I have been able to see a situation in a different perspective, I now mingle, and talk like crazy, its like sunshine has come in my dark life, really, I am so very happy and lucky, to have come across some quality blogs which have changed me for the better, and I am so very thankful to you guys, your words are literally my inspirations, thank you once again.

Thats one, another thing that has fueled my inspiration every time is FEAR, or to put it in a more sensible way its what lies ahead of the fear,
Those mountain dew guys may have cheesy ad's but they have one hell of a tag line. Darr ke aage jeet hain (Beyond Fear Lies Victory), awesome na??.

Really every time I have a new idea in my head, there is a fear and I think “will it work??, will I find success?”, and when I think about it, in my mind I start falling into a deep pit, and the only logical (Read:illogical) option that seems is, that I should drop that idea, but then a voice in my head says “lets give it try, you got nothing to lose except your honor”, listening to it I fear some more, and sulk, but another voice in my heart says “Dude mind is a ass, it is just there to make you fall into that pit, so that you wouldn't get up at all, I would say get up and try to climb that pit with all your strength, you may fall, but atleast you tried right?” I am in confusion, but the victory that lies ahead of the fear is far more convincing than the fear itself, so I take the risk, and see what has become of me.

I feared I couldn't write, and as said by some of you guys I am writing beautifully and very well now (even though my handwriting sucks, Big time :P), I feared to express my feelings thinking others might make fun of me, but when I did I just found more love than hate, I feared that by being different, everyone will think me as a freak, but it has just brought me applause than booing, So fear is the one thing that has inspired me to take a step into unknown, and besides some very small failures and hiccups on the way, I have found success in every part of my life, So for me FEAR is the one thing that inspires me as much as it motivates me.

I know, I know, I told you I wouldn't talk about me, but I ended up doing the same, Dil hai ke manta nai yaaro..... kya karen!!!

Well that was about me, but you guys now have to answer the above 2 questions, so that I get to know you a lil better, best answers will win chocolate chip cookies (Virtual ones of course :P), so now ask your self the above questions and give me a peek into your chweet little heart :).

Good luck, God bless. Cya Soon

21 comments:

Disguise said...

I'm glad you're back!
To be honest, I don't think I'll take a bullet for anyone. I'm not going to die for anyone, I might die fighting for them, but that's different.

Thousif Raza said...

@ Disguise: hmmm thats totally agreeable ya, nice that you put it that way cause, i never thought abt it like that, nice :)

ANWESA said...

Glad to know you had a gala time!
Coming to your question,I can take a bullet for my sister. Maybe I take blood-relations far more seriously than any other relationship.I'm a loner,not that I don't trust anyone,its just that I don't get intimate with most people.

Coming to inspiration,I got a scholarship of 500 bucks in 6th standard.That has been my biggest inspiration till date.You've really made me nostalgic ..Words fail me now...

Thousif Raza said...

@ anwesa: i am so glad to hear that, mission accomplished :D, glad to see you here again take care

xsystem | System of a Down said...

If u r not going to die for anyone... it doesnt make any difference to the world ... there will be simply one soul that will be pestered by the thought that u negated to take a bullet after she/he gave u so much ...

No one has to take a bullet in real life ... except for police and the army ... and also bsf and rashtriya jawans ... and bla bla ...

But in this world ... u cannot judge a person on that as well ... on what ur credibility is ...

Today if i say that I can be credible ... it means that I will always be there once I am committed to it ... it does not matter what time of day it is ...

If u dont like the thought of mixing credibility with taking a bullet ... then u r right in ur thoughts .... and most of the times thats the only thing that matters ...

Ur own conscience should be clean ... or dirty ... whichever u prefer ...

R S V said...

its amazing to know that you love your friends so much... mean you seem to know so much of them..

but bullets? I don't think I would take bullet except for my mother and brother...

inspiring thing??
fear?..that's interesting...
mmm.. well in my case...I am still confused....May be I try to inspire myself from everything I see...

xsystem | System of a Down said...

Regarding my inspiration ... there are many things . ... There are site admins, blood relatives, versions of softwares ... so many to chooose from ... but ... i think I know what my biggest source of inspiration :

I remember the times when I was supposed to perform to save my ass ... and I did perform ... and that always keeps me going ... even if i am at the helm of being extinct ... I know I will be able to struggle out of it ... sometime ... someday ... even if its not to immediate effect.

xsystem | System of a Down said...

That was during My BE ... at a place called Dhule ... i still reminisce those days ... :)

akanksha said...

Glad tht u're enjoying college:)
I miss mine soooooooooooo much:(

Ur post made me think. A LOT
There are atleast 5 ppl in my life, for whom I can take a bullet!
I really can.

Butterfly Thoughts said...

Well I tried thinking hard. I dont know but no name popped up really in my head. part from my parents none of them came to my mind. The thought is itself scary:-) so I dint think much
For your 2nd question
I was really weak in maths. so weak that I use to fail and had thought would give it up after class 10. But then i didnt and did my graduation also with mathematics and statistics. Its like a personal acheivement for me.I loved maths and so dint give it up so easily and it has really inspired me to take things which are not so easy in life.

Mustaf said...

I think I would do that for my wife and for my sister may be, but you know as you grow up these answer will keep on changing, e.g. once I become parent obviously my kids will be my top most priority and so on..am i being selfish? Don't know but this is what I am..

And the inspiration, I was in std 7th then when my father got transferred to Dhanbad so he would visit us once a week or once in 15 days. So naturally we all were upset as earlier we used to see him everyday. So, one day when i was sitting alone with a heavy heart, my mother came and told me "Don't worry abt him, he will be fine. You just study hard and be a good human being so that tomorrow people don't point a finger to your mother saying, because father was away, mother could bring the children up well This was sufficient for me to pull my socks and I still remember those lines..

QM said...

I miss reading your blog! Haven't be able to blog for a long time.

If I were to die for someone, it depends. If it's someone I truly love & care and he needs my organ, then maybe I would because I'm not sure how will I be if that would come to me.

the 2nd one. Inspiration. You might be surprise but what inspired me is - nature & the world. It feels like they are sending out silent msg & we just have to be more open up to understand it

Choco said...

Hmmm..I would probably take a bullet just for my parents...Someone else...Think I can take a shrapnel for them :)

xsystem | System of a Down said...

lol @ choco ... shrapnel !?
sometimes it's worse than a bullet ...

Gayathri said...

Eh!!man,i wouldnt take a bullet for anyone!!not becoz i dun wanna die..of course,i dun wanna die so early leaving all my loved ones to be sad thereon over my death..but also becoz i dun wanna endure the pain of the peircing bullet into my soft skin :D..may be cyanide would suffice :P

Thousif Raza said...

@ Xsystem: paaji its good to cu back, but so confusing comment, i cant make a head and tail of it can you plz explain again, i know i sound silly, but again plz.......

@ R S V: i too do that from time to time, so same pinch pal :). take care

@ Xsystem: Deadline's always inspire no doubt in that, especially when our ass is online, totally agree :)

Thousif Raza said...

@ akansha: so sad ya, but thx for the wishes and 5 people haan, god they are indeed lucky yo have you in their life.... nice to know that, take care

@ Butterfly thoughts: now that's an achievement, wow really cool to hear, can i see the marks cards though, so that i can believe you ?? :P, lol just kidding take care and wish you best of the luck for the future too...

@ you are not being elfish at all mustaf, really, time changes person and so that wise priorities to change that doesn't make us selfish at all, and i can feel the pain you feel cause i too have been away from my parents from the past 6 months, but your mom's words are really good man, really, its great you got inspired, nice to know, and hey welcome to my blog, hope to more of you here take care

Thousif Raza said...

@ Qm: i have missed you too:, glad to know you are back, nature haan, that's very interesting, actually that's the one thing that inspires us every time we see it na? so cool of an answer ya really, take care cya

Thousif Raza said...

@ coco: lol

@ xsystem: lol again

@ gayathri: hmm thats nice choice, now why dinty i think of that :P, lol again :), take care

manjiT said...

hmm.. to take a bullet for? i guess u plainly ruled out my only answer i.e my parents. well... imagining dying for some one else, i guess it would be preety impulsive. so i have no specific answer at this moment.

n the most inspiring thing, i guess wherever the context of medical science its inspiring in the own way (wy m i sayin it here i dont knw, n i also wonder what sense it would make to a stranger as u.... call it JLT)

Thousif Raza said...

@ manjit: it makes an impact yaar, cause you get to know what inspires people around you, you know, and we are not strangers we are blog buddies yaa, take care :)