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Is It Really Love??

Would you hurt the one you love?, would you abuse the one you love?, would you force your love on the one you love?

These were the exact questions that came in my mind when a friend of mine went through all the above situations, I felt so angry that if I was there I think an unexplainable crime would have been committed by me on that day,

You know I am always a believer that when you love someone, its should be mutual, you shouldn't force your love, you shouldn't hurt that person, how can a feeling like abusing or hurting can even come to one's mind, when you love the person, its some sickos who tell they love but don't really know the real meaning who do something like this, which has led to the term love get tainted.


But for persons like the above who abuse, they are like maniacs who just need love for all the wrong reasons, they say they love you but don't really mean it, they threaten you if you don't accept their love, they think the person will get scared and will accept their so called love, finally when the person cant take more of that abuse or hurting he or she goes to take the final step and commits suicide, and then what happens??, the other person too pops some pills and dies, to prove that the person's love was true, I ask you is that love?????

I am no preacher, but lemme put it in a nutshell, love is about finding happiness, is int it?, So if a person doesn't accept your love, cant you find happiness in things which he or she finds in their life?, cant you be happy for your loved one's happiness?. As everyone says, true love is about sacrificing, you sacrifice yourself for the person you love, but here some of the freaks just sacrifice the person itself, I mean what the hell ya?????,

For all the persons who think forcing your love upon another will get you ways, here is a newsflash, No you sick minded freak, you are not getting anywhere, trust me he or she will just hate you more, so bring a little sense in your nonsensical brain and go my blogger friend keshi's way of life, find love in yourself, rather than finding it another and try to be happy in another's happiness, give an take is the old saying, give and give is the new mantra.....

This was a the hate post as you all can say, for all the maniacs out there who think forcing or abusing or hurting the person you love will get love in return, lemme tell you one more time, NO the only thing you will get is pain, desperation and police lathi's on your asses thats it,

The same can be said about the persons who are so In love that they hurt themselves who think that by bearing pain they can “prove” their love to another, I don't understand, how does does hurting or getting hurt mean love at all????, is is really love????


I am no judge but I just wanna say, try being a little mature and just love with all your heart and you can be damn sure that the person sooner or later will see for what you are and will accept your love for sure. Try it, it will really bring happiness to both of you rather than pain.

Till next time god bless and good luck.........

21 comments:

ANWESA said...

Some things don't need proof and evidences. Love is one of those things.

Thousif Raza said...

@ anwesa: yeah so true, thats what i exactly wanted to say, thx for the help mehek, take care

MadhaV said...

I want to say only one thing that if you love someone then let him/her know about your love. Otherwise silence can kill your feelings. Personal view.

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akanksha said...

Well this post reminds me of a saying- "If you love someone, set him/her free...If he/she comes back,he/she was meant for you...but otherwise, it was,nt.Thats wt true love is! Sacrificing for the sake of the other:)

Nice post, quite thought provoking!
Take care and keep writing dear.

Keshi said...

u r so kind Thousif. ty so much for checking on me again. Im doing fine, dun worry. I hope all is well with u too?

the goodness abt u is that u truly care, even more than some friends I've known longer in Blogville than I've known u. God bless ya Thousif!

I will write some day again I hope...but right now I cant seem to do it...it's all at a halt. I hv left for my Instincts to guide me on this. Lets see where they lead me :)

dun worry...I will check on u guys every now n then. I miss u all too!

TC
Keshi.

Harshita said...

Agreed...

You cant force anyone to love you and the worst you can do is hurt someone in love... I think it is not love anymore then, its like OWNING someone for some people.

A good post...

R S V said...

You have been successful in explaining such an important aspect of love...LOVE IS FELT AND NEVER IMPOSED...beautiful...

Chriz said...

balancing the mind in relationships really helps to stay away from problems..

I love being in Love..
I love to be loved..
i LOVE TO LOVE..

but i never fall in love

ki said...

I liked this post a LOT. A lot of people think love is a right, that needs to be grabbed. They don't realise that it is a blessing that you need to deserve!

Aparna said...

It never helps to stay in an abusive relationship, it destroys you completely.
I am glad you decided to write this hate posts. Even if one such person reads it and realises its true meaning, you would have achieved your goal.
Sometimes we do end up hurting people we love unintentionally though, although we end up feeling very guilty afterwards.

Gayathri said...

I have no words..i aint experienced dude..

chaitanya said...

LOVE Is very precious .......it cant be attained by imposing or forcing someone......thats why they say LOVE HAPPENS.

very nice blog thousif as usual from you....loved this one.

when someone say they love someone they should respect the other persons feelings also,they may love you or may not love you as you love them .........just give them some respect.

and as you ended the blog,good luck for your next time .....may be next life.

cheers
keep writing
chaits

Thousif Raza said...

@ Madhav: how true, you know i am exactly going through such a situation and its literally killing me ya

@ Akansha: honestly said akansha, thx for the support

@ Keshi: i still miss you keshi hope you come back soon, and yes i will always be here for you promise :)

Thousif Raza said...

@ harshita: thank you :)....

@ R S V: thank you very very much....

@ Chriz: ahaha, i knew it i knew it, but try it once chriz ji you will LOVE it :)

@ KI: thats a totally new way of looking things ya, and hey welcome to my blog, hope to see more of you

Thousif Raza said...

@ Aparna: we just have to try not to do it, that was my view, thx for the support ya, and welcome to my blog, hope to c more of you.....

@ gayathri: i am really suprised though, can you temme why is it gayu? ;)

@ chaitanya: thx but may be next life whats that ya ? :O, anyways take care though

Keshi said...

I hv no words to say how much Im touched by ur words, awards and sentiments! ty so much u made my day Thousif. u r amazing urself. or else u wudnt be giving away love n appreciation in the form of awards like this. THANKS for being u!

*HUGZ* keep smiling always :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

btw I live in Aus :)

hey Im off blogs now...but u never know. Some day I may write again. So stay tuned ;-)

Keshi.

Thousif Raza said...

@ keshi: thats so very sad ya really, but i will just hope you will be back miss ya take care :( :( :(

AB HOME Interiors said...

Great post as usual. Love is a magical and mystical creature. but I agree with the other bloggers, you must always let them know!

Pri said...

Hey very sorry for the delay...

BEAUTIFUL post...!!! Totally loved the way you've described 'love' which is definitely not meant to be forced upon anyone...its again one of the things that is to be left to happen on their own!

Brilliant job on the post :)
Cheers!!!

Thousif Raza said...

@ amanda: so true and i completely agree :)

@ Pri: at last aap aye to sahi, hey no sorry ok, i am glad you are here
thank you, thank you and thank you again, welcome o my blog, and hope to more of you here, take care