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Today while i was returning in bus to my home, I saw something, it was so special, it was so beautiful, it was so unique, that for once I thought I had imagined it, I suddenly pinched myself, thats when I believed that it was for real.... lemme tell you what it was.......

It was a laugh of a woman.....

Looking at her laugh suggested that she dint care for the world or for the people around her, she just seemed to live, without the rules or the obligations to bind her, she seemed so happy and carefree, that I was just stunned looking at the beauty of that moment, no rules to hold her back, nothing to stop her, it was so special that words fail me to describe the moment.

But suddenly she stopped, and was looking from side to side, she pulled her veil on her head and sat back like she saw retracting in a shell, like she was thinking what others would think, like unseeing hands were telling her to stop, like unsounding voice giving her a warning, she seemed to abide by the “rules”, the “rules” of the “society”, which say that women should be within a limit, the limit which says she cannot express herself, which says, she is bound by the four walls inside the house, which says, she is a woman.

I was very very frustrated at that moment, thousands of questions played in my head, why I mean why has the world said that women should abide by “rules” made by the “society”. I mean who the fuc* made these so called rules?, why cant a women live as per her will?, when the constitution has given right for man and women alike. Why has the society differentiated saying, man is superior and women inferior?

You had to look the fear in the poor lady's eyes, like she had committed some sort of crime, it was so shameful, I felt so much pain at that moment, when I thought that this is what my mother, my bhabi's, my friends, have to go through everyday, they have to abide by the “rules”, which say you are not free... you are a some what lower species than “men”, which say that you are a Women.

I just cant believe what the world has come to, where a person cant even express oneself???. I mean why cant the world be a place where we just don't give rights but actually feel from our hearts that man and women are one, if you look at it a women does more work than a man in a day, whereas a man comes homes from work and cribs for a work not done, he gets furious for not making him a cup of coffee? And says “what the hell were you doing the whole day?”.

I just wanna say get into the shoes of a women for a day you lousy man and you will know what she does....but sadly no matter what, how much ever the “society” moves forward it will be the freaking same, it will still say women should be in a limit, that they are slaves and always should be. Thats what I hate, I hate this male dominated society, where a women has to live in fear every day.

A change is needed, where a man and women will be one, where the “society” wont be there to tell what a women should do and what shouldn't be done, where she will live whole heartedly and not just because she has to live by the “rules”, but where she can laugh when she wants to and cry when she want. But......

But, I think this cruel “society” will never abide by that, by either taunting or by restricting it will always hold her back, and even if she breaks free, it will force its so called rules and hold back this free spirit called women, because it knows, it knows that a women is far more stronger and far more powerful than a man.

Its only time till every women understands this and stands up for herself, and when that day comes, men will fear, they will fear just like that women feared to laugh, they too will be bound by the unseeing hands and unsounding voice. I just hope that day comes, and I pray with god that let it come soon so that everyone learns a lesson which they are supposed to learn.......


14 comments:

Sreeram Shenoy said...

Indeed man, the laugh/smile of a lady...chotu gal to a toothless granny...priceless!! :)

QM said...

I knew I could count on you! Yes, this "rules" still happens around the world. Here too where most women are told to follow whatever the husband tell them to.

I care not. I make my own rules, I have close friends who are boys and they say that they like the way I express myself because it's who I am.

Awesome post(:

Thousif Raza said...

@ Shreeram: you said it ;), take care


@ Qm: well i just hope as me other 'men' to understand as to what a woman is and respect her for what she is... thx for the comment felt really good reading it :), take care

Heavenly Muse said...

hmmmm....''careless...carefree'' smile...how rare thing it is ..in this very world...
man is a social animal....he/she is tamed like animals..but not even even allowed to breathe freely...
may be animals seem more lucky than us....
very deep insight u have got...

Thousif Raza said...

@ Heavenly muse: dude you have voiced what i wanted to say and even more so than that man, thx for the appreciation :), take care

Butterfly Thoughts said...

A thoughtful post. With people like you around good times are certainly ahead for women. Thanks for being such a wonderful person and understand all this.take care.

Thousif Raza said...

@ Butterfly thoughts: thank you so much for the words ya... i am feeling all the more grt than i did while writing the post... thx :), take care u 2

RSV said...

besides being a very good writer u seem to be a wonderful man..
great going..
and one more thing the way u infuse funny things even in such things..thats amazing..

Vyazz said...

Society alwayas makes convinient rules to suit their own whims. Surprised that not everyone realises that fact. As long as you are enslaved to society you are good. But the minute you begin to dont accept their dictates, u are branded as a heretic.

Arpitha Holla said...

i heard it somewhere tht the world is made dangerous for the women by the men..
superb post..

Sugy said...

Hi Thousif,

Like I said earlier(in person), the title is great and the message is wonderful.

The best part about your write up is the amount you've noticed in a flash of a moment. Keep it up!

The new template too looks good, but I've forgotten how it looked earlier!:)

Thousif Raza said...

@ RSV: thank for the appreciation, but funny woh kahan tha bahi... i am a lil confused ;), enlighten me plz

@ Ved: dude its good to c u back, and that comment just vloiced my words in a more understanding manner... welcome back take care

@ arpitha: yeah i know, and thx for the support :), take care

@ Suguna: Thank you 4 the review and for the appreciation :), take care

radiorocker said...

True... there are a few barriers which need to be overcome but till will take ages for that to happen... Its quite incredible how simple pleasures of life actually need freedom from the society... I wonder if at a point of time true freedom can ever be achieved.

Thousif Raza said...

@ radio rocker: your words left me amazed dude, you are so very true when you say tat, thx man take care ;)